Time Ticks

And I am still stuck in a horrifying rut. For a decade I have suffered with quite the multiple illnesses. Right now I will name 1. Epilepsy 2. severe, immobile pain of the body
Most likely #2 came from #1. Not epilepsy itself. But all the work I prayed for, about, door opened, and I snatched for 3rd brain surgery, done awake. It is a critical procedure. It you aren't weird like me in the hospital, used to it, excited for the surgery to rid of the disorder that hindered a lot of me and my families life-then you aren't a candidate. They have to be able to lightly give you anesthesia to saw and cut, fold back your head and skull. Quickly awaken to a numbing medicine that will only last for a little while-then they are too busy focusing on the surgery, which is good then to get more numbing substance. So then it is just to tell yourself that the pain feels great, you just want more!!! So you get thru it, without ruining the procedure. I am very good at that.
That #3rd brain surgery rid my seizures. We were delighted. I dealt with the headaches that followed for about two months, then they dissipated. For two weeks my family and I joined a gym-my request, for all the stuff I did a decade ago. Cardio, and weights, then indoor rock climbing!!!!! And basketball teaching my child as well as racquetball. About a half week after that fun, it sank. My whole body quickly from one foot and leg to another, to hips, ......all the way up to my shoulders.....were and are killing. We are stuck, after a couple hospitalizations where all was performed-Mayo Hospital, Phoenix, AZ.... we still have no answers. I flew back there to AZ now that we live in Philly to get appts with MY docs. No clear cut answers except a maybe Fibromyalgia. Okay. Let me try to cope with that. I tried to for a while. Then saw a physical therapist out here who examined me for almost two hours. Said no way it is Fibro. He says, as we've wondered, that most likely during that "have to be quick" awake surgery that a piece of the temporal lobe that controls pain was clipped. Now my body is in blatant confusion. But hey, even though I can hardly walk, play with my child, make love with my spouse-I am seizure free, right?
NO. That isn't the point. This is the worst part of my life ever. Clinging to any reason to stay alive when I am so useless. This all goes back to the start of this decade Jesus has chosen me I guess to do not much but suffer.
Seizures began going nuts in 1999. In 2000, when pregnant, I couldn't work or drive any longer as for they got worse and were sporadic. I was with a non stable husband then (ex now) and his mother referred me in their little town in Tuscaloosa, Al to a doctor who started the chaos from lack of knowledge. As for, not told, I happily went to see this neurologist--for MIGRAINES. Mind you, this is something big to keep watch on during your pregnancy. But Ben Lucy III had little knowledge what to do with my case. My seizures we frequent, requiring more medication. But as he saw the only one I took my whole life was Phenobarbital, he increased it well passed toxic level. And my child was born at her tiny size, at my normal weigh around 110 level. (33) As well as having seizures today.
My whole life I never did one illegal drug, odd being from Lake Havasu City, nor did I have one drink until I turned 21. From then I had a total of like 7. No addictions.
But I had always had marital problems that heated up when my child was born. (mine as for he has signed her off) I went thru my first brain surgery-same hospital and surgeon. Complete success.  Still on phenobarbital, but back down to 180!! It was time for me to move to TX where my now ex was stationed. Got there the 2nd of October 2002-he beat me on the 6th. Thru all of that-going to base, pictures taken of body bruises, x-rays etc, I made it thru every tear, and my baby's tear with no seizures.
It was all the drama that began to set it from my ex. Personal feelings I had of the whole situation-my brain snapped and recalled well. The answer to this dreadfulness are hand full of my pheno's. Numb my pain, get thru paperwork-hopefully get back to my family in Phoenix soon. But that medication is a quick downer, and you will bawl. So, you pop more. You are sure you can walk a straight line, talk, drive. As long as I made it thru the day, that pill was my "god." No one to reach to much about the abuse, this was simpler.
It led to a family friend I visited in Austin, as for I feel I look and talk normal. They were astonished at my "personality." It wasn't me. They called my parents in AZ said to get on a flight now, as he took me to an ER or two.
I got my own apartment after a couple months with my family in Chandler, AZ. It was my Tory and I. And had she been old enough to count for me, I could relay what an atrocious years for OD that was. Wasn't taken care of until I could tell it was not filling my void. So I went to a church, cause, honestly it had purple signs. I had to find another way to take my emotional pain from me. Pills didn't do it. It took 3 overdoses... and the last one never forgotten. Mayo ED had to pump my stomach as I was crying for Jesus' mercy, my lights went out into coma-He woke me up a different person.
Here is the catch. I became a full fledged follower October 24, 2003. And I know, recognize, feel, read, explain, and live out how more suffering is to come. I grasped that. So I fought over 20 medication changes and eight grand mal seizures in 2004. I fought side effects that made docs think I was dying--just the drug side effect. We see nothing working and had me in the hospital 2 times for testing for 2nd brain surgery. I was a complete success with that SISCOM test.
Surgery date #2 -went into Mayo March 28, 2005 and had the surgery done April 4, 2005. Once again-full of His love, grace, and mercy. Prayers all around me from others-as I prayed for my family to find Jesus. In and out. Amazing.
One month later I had another grand mal, and two complex partials. There is a WHY? But I didn't give into that. I blamed that medication I was still on. So we switched. I was doing pretty good with a few auras here and there. But worse off, my eyes killed the whole 8 mos of trying this medication. We tried to see if the Godly Heather would be different with phenobarbital now---and that didn't work. We have tried all meds so in 2006 we were at a loss. We gave this med that hardly anyone will take a chance. Felbaltol--caused liver damage quickly and aplastic anemia in prior patients. But I was gonna have faith.
I was becoming one of those stats about 5 months into it. Hospitalized very unwell summer of 2006. They got my white count back up and missing vitamins. For the fact I was 30 pounds less than normal, they decided to take me off of it. Not even a month later I was back in with constant huge grand mal seizures, from lack of Felbatol.
In between all these stays they have found one kidney that almost does not function at all. Drastic TMJ, RLS along with air stuck in my salivary gland from 1st brain surgery.
When I had that grand mal stay in 2006-that was when I had my first question to God-the Why? How's? etc And my heart was hurting.
But nothing hurt my heart so bad when after this 3rd brain surgery, basically seizure free-but held down, disabled with such severe pain from shoulders down. I can't do anything. When I do--it can be no more than 4 hours. And I will then be on the couch for 14 days and using my walker.
Why get someone well God for a couple weeks to show that Glory, than slap it with such trauma.???
I am in a severe check out mood--whether just God, but no, the pain is still here--than life. And I am really trying how else one could live like this-but I don't see that in the near.

So much more to tell.... but a glimpse of why He is never done with my medical suffering. And not just one, multiple. One gets well, quickly turns to another--seems more devil like. So between extreme pain from my 3rd brain surgery by Dr. Richard Scott Zimmerman, Mayo
and this new upcoming hardy symptoms from meniere's disease..... His plans are to keep me down....

Not sure of my plan, but I Love you All so deeply!!!

Love,

Heather J Siebens

Pain is such an uncomfortable feeling that even a tiny amount of it is enough to ruin every enjoyment.
~Will Rogers


All pain is either severe or slight, if slight, it is easily endured; if severe, it will without doubt be brief.
~Cicero

Beauty in Life

Smiles thru Love

With heart and voice,
With Hands and face,
No one can take a mother's place.

The most amazing gift that has "seen" me thru everything in my life, so much tragedy, hard times and distress-is this now 9 1/2 precious girl, now I know as a gift from Jesus-Tory Mariah Siebens. 

That is already her second last name. How odd is that happening years prior 9? My ex husband, her past dad biological was all we could say-would only take time finally when he had some. He was busy trying to get higher ranking in the Army, dating on the side, while I struggled finding out how will I take care of her on such a tiny bit of money? I don't go back to abuse that had already been been 6 years of adultery, after throwing this "Jesus " stuff in my face.  So of course I rejected Jesus then in the 90's, and easily was confused as to whom I wanted-as each time we filed-I searched for more. Several times I was not filed. So I was not perfect. Just very hurt in our early years.

But he led on to sticking with me, even after I told him we were pregnant from that night we kindly went out to decide how we would file. When he heard that, he blew up and wanted to abort her. Oddly him being raised as the "Christian" I was shocked to hear that. As for I thought I, not being one, felt weird feeling it was some sort of sign to stick together. After a few days he stuck it out--

But thru months of tragedy that led to selfishness as for my illness that no one ever expected interrupted his plans made. He wound up having to find a way to cover both me and his daughter in insurance. My Cobra ran out. He joined the Army. He had many relationships while I was ill in AZ raising Tory. Then he came back for 2 weeks to "help" me after my my 1st brain surgery. Was not fun at all. Even when I went to see my neurologist, he told me the way I acted was I did not want to go live with him-there was fear. But as wife, I was ready to give it a try. 

I was there for 4 days, that night I was very emotional. He looked up at me me at told me "You just better get over it or I will sent just you back---I am going to bed!" I began to bawl-- that didn't turn into "how can I help you sweetie...." it led from him ripping on me from one year to another-my eyes were wide open... and I told him to quiet down for Tory's sake.... He wouldn't...

I then told him I would take the bed, you take the couch until this is all settled. I went to close the door-and he busted part of the side to get in. I always had seen parts of him aggressive... but they kept growing so out of control. 

The neighbor was also Army, would not let me use her phone. Ours still was not hooked up on first night. And I was cell phone-less. I couldn't leave cause I had no idea where I was, and of my baby.... so I lived it out, awake a few more hours with my car key-in which he would need, so he better be good til then.

Story moved fast fast from there-I found an amazing Army Chaplain... no he found me bawling. He took me in his office-guided me what to do. So much in between, but this little 1 1/2 yr old held so tight thru it all.... God just watched over her big. We had run into friends at our apartment that the Army pulled my ex out of--they we Christians-I was clueless. But it made them loving and sweet. Tory and I had all that bonding time again just on our own. We our the Mom and daughter team. We were on our own in the very beginning, middle, then, after.....until we went back to Chandler, AZ....

I had been talking to my amazing friend, who had such a heart for me, how couldn't he for Tory? So several months after my overdosing had begun to numb my pain, Christian began to fly down to Phoenix, where he had business and all his family. We would go on dates-and the amazing part, he would happily go on one along with Tory!! That was a real man!! Those two sure more than connected, as for they are daughter and daddy today!! He is my husband legally for 3 years and 3 days ago!! ( I made it Oct 6, 2006--Oct 6 in 2002 was when my ex beat me, turned it into a wonderful day!)  And this girl has lived thru my ex finally trying to get some time when she was 5 for a drop by than 6-7 yrs old couple weeks per years. It ironically was when her seizures spiked very high. As for stress is one of the top causes for extra seizures.

During her time with my ex, whom no matter what truth of how she was born I would tell her, to her - her real dad was and is Christian. He has raised her since she was 2. Many years prior before my ex stepped back in. But his new wife, 22 yr old, insisted aggressively to her that she call him daddy and her some other name that meant aunt in her country. That was uncomfortable for Tory. They would tell different "tragic" stories that I had never even spoke about to her. I am not 20 anymore. So my child saw psychology for a while. He finally saw what he was doing to her, and sadly they were pregnant and chose the money to her over her-after all they put her thru.

But she and I thru it all were best friends. She was there for me for ALL brain surgeries. Amazing how God is so in her heart. Her heart isn't one to explain at her ages she has been. She cares for all, and all ages. A child that just is like a walking Jesus-not anything much like a child too often. She has a heart for all of you-and she doesn't even know you. I didn't do this. Jesus did this. Started out protection thru parental strife--led on with a leader for not just kids, but adults too-and preparation I am sure for one day when she does hear the truth of he ex dad. But she is one I haven't seen hate one kid yet. And I am so proud. One mom that can learn from her child. The words she'd say to me while in the hospital, would blow me away!!! I am blessed.... with her and her true Dad Christian.

Love you both.

Love,

Heather

A mother eases the pain,

quiets the heart, 

calms the the fear,

and wipes away every tear

that runs down a child's cheek

My child Tory is full of endless love and touching care,

since first moment together we'd always touch and smile,

with her love she'd gracefully come to me and share

endless talk about her and me that took quite a while.  ~Hetty

I love you mommy. you have made my life the best ever. Jesus gave me you and I thank him so much for our love that never ends. Must also come from his amazing gift of love. thank you always for being there always-I will always be there for you too. God has had reason for all brain surgeries, and illnesses. But I love to hug you and kiss you and pray while you are there for the surgery. our love is so strong, mom, I think that it heals just as much thru Christ as surgery does. I love you, praise Jesus for you, think of you always, and can't wait for every moment we will spend our special time together. My love is strong for Jesus, you and daddy--but is also one amazing love that reaches out to all thru hard times. Praying for healing. God amazing me daily, weekly, monthly, yearly, monthly, yearly.... I love you all so much. God Bless.

For us always, thru all to come, we are one on one thru Christ-mom full of love and comfort and teaching.

I love you.

Accepting

Takes away and GIVES
Job 1:21 (KJV)  And said, Naked came I out of my mother's womb, and naked shall I return thither: the LORD gave, and the LORD hath taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD.

It has been a tough half a year following my 3rd brain surgery. One severe pain led to another. One why led to several. Then just a final snap. All emotions went haywire as for nothing felt fixable. I'd be given different pieces of thoughts on what it could be. But not all tests in the world were run yet, to find out to WHAT it is.

So I struggled in pain. We moved to an amazing new home-with awesome stairs--that I can't get up. I felt so alone, so baby like. And I was supposed to be the mom. So I got on the phone with my neurologist here in AZ in tears and told him straight out. He had me come out for a billion outpatient appointments. I thank God for my parents and everyone helping me get back and forth.

It boiled down to many years of stress, trauma, surgeries--and how my body coped with stress then, was to seize. Now since my 3rd brain surgery in February it doesn't have that ability. I am seizure free. So whatever stress I have, and am unaware of (which is always-my family doesn't recognize it well-tough people) it doesn't flee thru the brain for seizures, it tries, brain gets confused and shoots it all over, confusing all parts of my body-causing confusion in it even of severe pain receptors. So my stress has to decrease, I have to increase little each day with moving my body to get all of it flowing-physical therapy, pool exercises, etc. Reactivate it in the right way, hopefully.

This has been a long walk. I have to accept this won't go away with a pill or surgery-but I am in along with it getting better. I have two meds that help it-but still is quite extreme pain right now until more and more therapy gets going.

Long road for 33, 10 years of just one major health issue after another. But then I look at dear friends who have it hard at a younger age--such as 7--and my heart breaks. Then you buck up and understand the days you wish you could take those illnesses away-but I've learned the teachings thru Christ what illnesses can do for the patient, family, friends, surrounding people near and far. And we have to learn that HE knows the answers and plans-we don't. Give our worries and cares to Him--for He more than cares!! He has plans for us!!! His love will never perish!! Blessed be the LORD!!

AMEN....

Lean on HIM....

Love you all-thank you for all your prayers and love!

In His Love,

Heather

What Do You Hear?

Holding On

Romans 9:18  So you see, God shows mercy to some just because He wants to, and He chooses to make some people refuse to listen.

Powerful words. I remember being told by someone like a year ago they decided not to believe in Jesus-have faith at all, all because of this verse. It is a strong verse. But I stared at it for a while-it really didn't pertain to my life yet, so it didn't come out strong yet. So I gave it time.

Not that I know what the Word possible is for sure, but it came to my mind with all me, then my brother-my family goes thru. I already knew it isn't a pre-destined - or freewill would have been pointless... and learning to have faith in Christ, etc. The reason behind that verse above is that God has His timing. His personal patience and plans on all of us. With knowing all each of us can go thru and take to find Him-He knows how long to allow us to keep wandering on our own, for our own love of life and things until He finally starts to throw in "signs." Throw in pushes for us to learn more... make Him more obvious thru all we've gone thru and pulled-whether we like it or not. Until one day we do run into a something, someone, sometime that all blend together so perfect to help everything open for finding, and searching for Him-willingly. And that is when it is amazing.

I have seen this happen so many times. Starting with myself denying in the beginning. But getting coddled the whole way-while clueless it was Him at all then. Until I hit my bottom-then He opened my eyes and ears and heart to it all. That is when I really saw all He did the whole way.

I have seen this in so many friends, my brother, amazing souls who come to me--I am amazed at how He moves all around us-with such a heart. With plans. He doesn't want to see any of us perish for sure.

So know-even though someones eyes and ears may be shut right now-- but In His Time they will be opened, and such a shock. And He has plans with it all.

As I sit here on the end of my testing-I pray my daughter does well thru the week til I get home. As she grips Jesus. My husband keeps walking tight with Him as I return-our love only gets stronger thru Him--and my brother just gets ready for a big hug, even when I am in pain-and just to talk all about how amazing He is, always. He does have plans for us.

This has been a tough week here in Phoenix with all these medical tests-but I do know He is true and faithful. And He sure has love extended to us all--with endless plans for life!!

Love you all!

In His Love,

Heather

Back to Mayo

Back to Mayo

I now live in Philadelphia, PA. Am still in utter pain from before my move out here. It has been excruciating since two months after my 3rd brain surgery. The pain started in April of 2010-and has gotten nothing but worse.

I have had so many by my side thru it all. One amazing one is @mcProdigal - as I have had these enormous break downs, he has stood up for me. Reasons. Prayer. Friendship. One who is always there for you in moments time, as you reach out. He will amaze you. He still does me. And I hope he knows he will be kept in contact my whole stay at Mayo. 

My own brother @troyjensen is the one who has awakened me to getting well. Back to Jesus and my faith. He has so much love it is amazing-he is the one with the brain yet takes time for me. We are the brother and sister I've always wanted, and I hope even more than he ever expected.

My husband has the strength to let me go to Phoenix, AZ-back to my hospital to have this figured out. And he loves me so much, he didn't hang on-saying no no, go here. He has let me go knowing the best is where I am going-that way he can get a larger, great percentage back of me to him.

And my Tory will always amaze all. She is so on fire for Jesus. The one young child Jesus has made to understand so much about my illnesses and how to fix them-not to fear it. She has such an understanding and pure love for all of us thru it-it makes me cry more.

Thank you all for your support. I will land in Phoenix tomorrow 1 pm... and enter Mayo on Tuesday... look forward to staying in touch thru it all. You all amaze me.

God bless you all!

In His Love,

Heather

Faith in my Hospital

My Love Forever

"Can miles truly separate you from friends....If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?" ~Richard Bach Quote

My precious husband and I started dating shortly after a tragedy in my life-my ex beating me and my turning to overdosing to numb that pain. I didn't know that doctors quick answers and I sure as heck did not know Jesus'.

My sweet hubby today-and confused me with what was right, what was wrong. We just connected so well thru our hearts for one another. He connected more every time thru being a dad on the visit. One Tory looked up to.

We still had to deal with out stronger love from afar more and more every month, every year. In April of 2004 we had amazing talks on the phone. So amazing he was receiving numerous deep poems, love stories, amazement how we were at where we were-perhaps getting redding ready to get further! Thru God-with each other!!

It wasn't long after my writing to my then boyfriend, all giddy, that I went from that attitude to my having huge convulsions. Mu sweet heart's heart just sank.

Then this precious one cafe to visit me in May to see how I was. He held me tight in love as we were ready for church. About 15 minutes prior it starting, I had had hard core complex partial. So I was ready not to go. But it worsened that night. He stayed with me for safety.

And that is what is changed is outlook on my seizures. The fact he was around to see them. To help console me. And our kiddo. But before he never really saw them- he had reason to doubt. As before he had.

Darn epilepsy doesn't show on the outside well. But this illness began to show along with two more brain surgeriesl

And with faith and support of faith I can say I was finally healed from my epilepsy.... but it sadly led to more destruction. Worse destruction I'd trade back-my whole body kills. Along with my left eye going blind.

I am incapable of getting up our stairs. Or dressing wells. Walking, carrying my laptop. I have my brother, thank God for all of this.

My Big brother who used to be to proud-the hiring type-is now the one there for me. 100% No matter how high is I.Q. he waits for me to get well-saying that means for then everything in his like!!! Who else will keep him on fire for Jesus!!??

That changed my life-my aspect on how well I WILL GET... and I thank God for Him!

As for my hubby seeing this one either---no. He won't. But He will see what amazing good Christ will bring out of it again.

I am nervous for the first time about what the docs will say and do-but at peace knowing already my brother stood up for Jesus thru me--and I will get well-His timing.


Love you all!

In His Love,

Heather (Hetty) @AliveinMe

Beyond Thought

Luke 6:37-38
“Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven. Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back."

Giving. Doesn't it always seem like we are talking physical gift? Whether Christmas, birthday, anniversary etc... isn't giving usually looked at as physical gifts?

Those gifts are amazing, and usually from an amazing soul that is already a gift from Jesus--whether you spouse, kiddo, brother, sister, parents etc... to me, they sure are gifts as well.

My big brother and I have formed a bond, a relationship-an extreme gift to me this past year. One that I will cherish forever. One that is better than any wrapped gift-as for it is all from the hearts. Mine was never perfect, but was sure patient in waiting to hear from my heart-filled brother one day. One that set money aside, acknowledging that money can be productive, but nothing can be like the heart of a loved one.

And that is what he has done in just ounces of time. May not have all of what he had in the beginning of his spiral-may not add up as much expensive "needed" items. Or over time just tons of stuff of expense, that just don't mean anything in the heart. When the heart isn't reacting-there is more to be searched for. Praying to God He guides you how to fill it with something correct of the heart.

Even if you have tried another persons heart-try it again, but with one of deep love you haven't allowed yourself to recognize. 

My brother and I have so much love for each other-he was just unaware for a while there. I always loved him beyond happy book love. I truly put my whole self out there-defending all he was going thru, put me thru, others thru. He was needing more heart patience from someone-or he'd give up on his. And for months I was there, patient, and full of love and history. He just needed to make a change. Choose to.

He chose to when we moved to Philly. He saw my suffering with my illness-and my Why God's coming out. He didn't like that about me. He knew how I knew all about Jesus, and was one to share. Time before, yes, he thought that was weird... but watching my illness get worse as my love faded for Christ-all he could do was begin praying. And talking a ton to me about Jesus. Finally, after a decade of my love for Christ there-he had to reset it for me too. This life isn't just about me--he'd tell me... thru the illness it was about helping others. Finding right help. Growing close as family--- and for him, staying off his amazing work until I am better, so I have him at home, helping.

God worked wonders thru my brother to restart my engine. Siblings like this keep you alive-just thru love and personality-but thru Christ at the beginning of a brilliant walk.

We are thrilled and blessed beyond measure. All I can say is Praise The Lord!

In His Love,

Heather  @AliveinMe  @Time4Christ

Gifts

Romans 15:13 

So I pray that God, who gives you hope, will keep you happy and full of peace as you believe in Him. May you overflow with HOPE thru the POWER of the HOLY SPIRIT.

Today was my precious hubbies birthday.... Mr. Christian C Siebens is now 42, and excited to be. 

He doesn't look 42, act 42, live like 42-he lives more like my age of 33-and me more his by illness. But we still fit perfect! His new job has him thrilled like a child-which is a blessing!!! And our new location for it is where I lived when I was 17/18.... I think he feels that age out every so often here he loves Philly so much!

He has a lot on his plate-me. Work is a lot, but for his it is so much fun. He loves me to pieces, but I am so complicated due to my illness, and the extreme surgeries-final healing to 2 weeks of wellness now 5 months of pure suffering that gets worse every couple weeks.

So for his birthday I really wish I could be well for one day. Really. Not pretend. But so well that I was ready to go one place to another full of the voice and humor I used to always have. But it isn't here this birthday. But I will say, I have extreme prayer for him that the doctors we see out here in Philly find something curable. Otherwise, it is just a spiral of downhill I don't want him to suffer with, when he has so much to give. He is the gift on his birthday, how selfish that seems, but that is because he is a gift every day, no matter what we go thru.

And I thank God for Christian. And keeping us strong, thru HIM. 

All is only worth life if it is for Him-He is life. And I still have some going, just fighting for the blessed amount He wishes upon me. 

My precious Christian is blessed with a long life-he is a walking Abraham!! 

God bless you all--know Christian adore you all. We are blessed by you all and thank Jesus for you!!

In His Love,

Heather @AliveinMe @Time4Christ  and Christian @flyingchristian

Happy Birthday my precious----always!

McProdigal Amazmen

This is for my dear friend, mentor Richard Mayhan @McProdigal. He is so transparent, goes deep in subject then brings it to the surface thru the love and heart of our Lord and Savior-Jesus Christ
He is so humble-placing others obstacles in life first. He tries to really understand them as if he lived it out. Most of all he has been thru obstacles never ashamed about-therefore he can talk, listen, pray, lift, console, understand, and gather others to pray that you will have no idea about!! His heart is amazing for the love of Christ.... please connect if not--and if ever looking for anyone in counseling/church--he rocks up in New Hampshire!! Otherwise, catch him on here!!!
God bless you all for praying--helping me see some purpose. Pull me out of this mud. It is still so hard everyday-but it is more and more in Christ's hands again, not mine.

God bless-with humble thanks....

Hetty  (Heather)  @AliveinMe  @Time4Christ  http://www.facebook.com/AliveinMe

PS... and the Counting Crows started their first major album in 1993-debut 91...no 80's my friend!!  :)

Anger

Romans 1:12 

When we get together, I want to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours.

Therefore it takes more than one to keep faith alive. When one is strong in their faith, helping another, the other's bitterness can only last so long before you see either explosion, or you have to give them time off of clinging.

I know clearly what it is like to suffer. Some people can't say even how much it seems so intense. But I always say our suffering is equal in God's eyes. He knows what areas will break another to faith and another that won't. But to us humans, many feel it is just us. Only ME suffering badly. Can't anyone see that?

It is ok to talk to Jesus about it all-He wants that. But He doesn't want you turning over time, nor turning others. Wronging them for complaining of what they go thru, or bringing others further from their faith while they suffer. Then tear at one who was just venting to Jesus, and had zero to do with it but demeaning words.

I had to block Kim Alexander from all ability to post, as for her illness has her angry and in a mood to compare her illness to the world. So we have gone from me helping her, to her hating me for ever questioning God-when that is her daily issue.

So I no longer can help her-which she didn't take easily anyway. And a close friend of hers has been dropped a while back due to her type of illness, but not respecting her friend has them too. This world doesn't understand, that it takes true heart and faith to help that illness flee. I know that from my epilepsy.

She is angry at me for venting my illnesses to God, angry to God she has one. She is just angry and it isn't for me to help that. I will pray.

Join with me and pray for Kim's faith.

Blessings.

Heather

Faith

Matthew 20:28 "For even I, the Son of Man, came here not to be served, but to serve others and give My life as ransom for many.

To think Christ said those words LIVE back then. That is astounding! Part of me wishes I was there. But with all going on with me medically, I can't see me now being an awesome verbal on fire one-for Him. 

I need help. I need Him to take all this away. He did the epilepsy, why not the rest? Or do I have to be ill in order to speak to others about Him. I have since the moment I was beaten and turned to overdosing-I realized there was more.

My brother and I hit the conversation. He read another one of my blogs on healing, then began thinking of a whole boat that went down. All I can say is that it hurts, but God has His timing for reasons. He has certain deaths as for they were enough, others not to see such atrocious sin enter when they return. Then we all out here on the outside have to answer. question. Understand. Many won't. Some will try. But God is in control and has His reasons for erratic things like this.

Then we get back to the illness. He goes on and on with all the selfish, wrong things he did-why didn't he get natural illnesses as I did? I have many to share-as I remained strong with Jesus. 

It took my 3rd brain surgery, my understanding his strife, and illnesses I have today to have him talking to and about God. Seeming way more stronger than myself. He asks me a question on God-faith, and gets me to answer it straight out. Therefore saying I have faith.

I know I have faith. Just is irritated, confused, and trying to get as strong. People like Troy are people who get it out of you. And I commend him, love him, and can't wait till he shares like me.

In His Love.

Heather

Illness

Matthew 9:27-29

After Jesus left the girl's home, two blind men followed along behind Him, shouting, "Son of David, have mercy on us!"  They went right into the house where He was staying, and Jesus asked them, "Do you believe I can make you see?" "Yes Lord, we do!" Then He touched their eyes and said, "Because of your faith, it will happen." And suddenly they could see! Jesus sternly warned them, "Do not tell anyone about this."

And I have gone thru so many illnesses. But it all happened at a severe point right before I found Jesus. Was that because I rejected Him for five years prior and needed me on fast forward to take care of my child. Be a single mom.

Then I get so on fire that I spread Him like fire. On line, off line, around line etc. I wonder if I compared to the men in this Scripture.

I do know that I am sick. I do know I have to keep growing closer to Jesus, as for it healed me before. Epilepsy is now gone after years of worshipping our One and only Savior. 

Deal is, every single time I was healed, another illness hit. Why illness? Why me? The one in the family who worships Him with all her heart. What does that do for Him and growth of other finding Him, if I can't get out there. Is this the last severe illness I bow to Him for? Or will it never end with me.

That is scary. These aren't small go to the doc and get some meds. These are from epilepsy, bad kidney, to blind eye, kills to function.

So if I could ask Jesus a simple question, "Will illness continue...." I wish I could. I could pray harder like I used to. Share His Word like never before. But when one illness gets healed by brain surgery, 3 mind you, and you get struck with an eye that can't see and body that can't function.... your Word for Him calms down. Know He is out there.... but maybe not for you. And the fire I had lit to share His Word is limited, as for I can't see reason for such despair.

And if any kind, it is something daily painful, and slow, like torture. Not doctors agreement on date due to cancer for me passing. But just a harsh way to keep me focused on Him, others to come to Him. Perhaps. But there are better ways.

Jesus, I love you.... please end this soon. I can't bring others to You like this. Simple truth.

Heather

He Gives and Takes Away

Jesus

He gives and takes away. How can that be one of my most awesome, loved songs... yet the lyrics are so brutal in certain ways. They have more than grabbed my heart and drenched it. Yet we cry those tears of love to Christ to "He gives and takes away..."

Now on a normal day, normal street, normal humans-we wouldn't look at it that way. Whomever gave us something amazing-then snatched it--we would be ANGRY!!! We might have hatred. We might not talk to for a while or so. But this is Jesus. His choices are right. His are clear to Him. His make our life an amazing one to keep living for Him, with His purpose. But it still hurts.

I had to deal with my 2nd surgery hurting my heart. And this song grabbing me both emotionally and with comfort. Letting me know that Jesus had more plans after that 2nd brain surgery-and I just had to hold on and trust Him.

Did that hold back tears. No. But I had the comfort of Him talking to me, perfect timing, letting me know His plans still were to come.

I went thru years of suffering, seizures, medication illnesses, etc for my 3rd brain surgery to arrive in February of 2010. I was so excited. So thankful.

After the amazing awake brain surgery I was "well" and healing for two months from the pain. Once that pain left-I was ready to rumble. Be more than who I was over a decade ago.

I started working-out. It only took 2 weeks for it to crash my body limb by limb. Starting with the foot. Worked its way up to my neck-including my fingers as I type. Everything killed me and nothing with any appointment made sense or got better. I am now partially blind. 

We are stuck between John Hopkins and back to Mayo with my neuro there. As for I've had weird neuro jolts thru the pain meds and stress.

Most of all I was angry at God. I have never understood why He would keep one, who has been a good kid, decent adult, then when found Him, pretty darn on fire for Christ--enabled, unwell. How long does He plan to keep me down and why?

I guess I won't know here. I just know I used to be an amazing soul-and it has been drained out of me as I sit here needing help with everything. Makes you wonder what kind of person you are? Wife? Mom? Sister..... that is why I want things fixable, or able to depart. No one can live like this. Ten Years Tory has had a sick mom--she is a bit over 9....wow....what a gift I am.

God.... please find an answer quicker than this. I can't take it.

Heather

One life to live, all should have a chance to dance when happy, happiness drives us to do fun things.  (do you think I can dance again one day?)  ~Hetty Jensen

Anger

Anger.

Isn't it a blast?

We all are guilty of it. And we can't say more than another-cause only God knows. But how we handle it, is another story. 

We can steal. We can be verbal. We can lie. We can cheat. We can murder. 

We can beat another-that I know. Felt that one for sure. We can cut each other down. We can use humor to cut one down. We can hurt others feelings over and over intentionally. We could remain bitter.

I could go on. But that will get me no where. But more tired. More pain. More drained with no winning.

Answer: let's do all of everything together. (A little Jerry Maguire) Don't have to agree, have to work together so things fit. No one is perfect I have relearned except Jesus. But it is a hard road He gives us sometimes and we need to look to ways that will bring us happiness along the way. Shunt the anger. Begin to reach back out to our Lord in time. 

It took today-a billion messages after a full night up....along with a phone call. It took so much sadness I found occur in ONE day thru my Faceback that broke my heart. That made me realize-no I am not alone in this disaster, and He will pick us each up as we reach!

So much sadness. One very tragic story. Just pray for a friend of mine, no one really knows-Catherine-who tried to leave this world. That was a wake up. And my heart is with her.

I am aching still bad. I still hate this. I still ask God why me.... but in one day He showed me so much why's that I should shut my trap---so I am.

God bless you all!!

In His Love,

Heather

I'll keep you updated!

James 3:2 We all make many mistakes, but those who control their tongues can also control themselves in every other way.

2 Peter 3:13 But we are looking forward to the new heavens and new earth He has promised, a world where everyone is right with God.

Despair

Desperately When will Jesus come back for me? He dropped me hard and left me behind to suffer. I am the only full, on fire for Christ in my family----He used me in amazing ways. But when do they lighten or changed a tad? Go from severe Epilepsy, 3 brain surgeries-multi illnesses along with all...all while praising, knowing He was using all for His gloryl I had reached to people I didn't even know. And that was enough. Just after 3rd, it got worse....some seizures occurred but most of all- I was given a new severe illness that was all over the body --severe pain--kidney shrank more which makes it hurt more. Basically bind. Ears off and on. But body is always in severe pain. I am on a walker now, at 33. I am bitter and angry and question God for the first real time-anf it hurts-and everytime I talk about it, I bawl. Lamentations 3:31-33 For no one is abandoned by the Lord forever. Though he brings grief, he also shows compassion because of the greatness of his unfailing love. For he does not enjoy hurting people or causing them sorrow. I pray He doesn't enjoy showing it to others with me...cause it is never ending. No more family to bring to Christ....once I am gone-pray someone come to Him strong to bring to Him. Love, Heather @Time4Christ http://www.facebook.com/AliveinMe